Is been a while. I got to thinking about trying to update my blog but the problem is twofold. One, its a big task, if I really wanted to I would probably have done it by now, and two I am so forgetful id probably miss lots of information out anyway.
To update im here in Santa Barbara, California house sitting for a friend of a friend. Its a nice sleepy little place called Goleta and im happily encamped in a one bed condo with loads of nice facilities, cinema down the road, shops and lots of great food options. And, get this, IVE GOT A KITCHEN.
There are mountains to one side of me and sea to the other, the weather is generally steady late teens and ive even got a cool beach cruiser bike to get about when I don't use the super efficient bus network. six weeks hey is the plan, culminating in Kim and Ria flying out on 15/3 to visit for a two week road trip north up the Pacific Coast Highway and then on to Vancouver for hiking.
Mexican food is king here and boy am I taking advantage, especially in the small divey restaurants where the grub is plentiful cheap and suer tasty, and as per America the portions are usually enough to feed a small family. Its normal practice here to take what you don't heat home, and everyone does it
Fast forward six weeks, the picture has changed somewhat. The C word has arrived worldwide. Panic buying of toilet rolls and pasta, mass cancellation of major public events, airlines cancelling travel, complete lockdown of whole countries. At first most were quite calm about it, myself included and jokes were abound, then it began to spread, and spread and im sitting here wondering what the world will look like in a month, two months etc. Its having a devastating effect on businesses big and small, airlines, hospitals and is touching the lives of everyone.
Selfishly it probably means the girls won't come now too, and I wonder what this makes my travel look like for the next few months. As I type Trump has closed of all incoming travel from Europe, as of tomorrow but excluding UK.
Luckily I don't have anything booked up as I tend to wing my travel so essentially I can go anywhere at any time. Mars is looking attractive right now but alas I think I may not be able to afford the ticket.
So I guess ill be here in USA for a while unless is can find a way to Canada, im trying to decide what to do if im so stuck
Sunday, 15 November 2020
The land of smiles
I was going to head straight back to UK after Nam, primarily to get my van ready to tour Europe, and see friends and family after being away for seven months.
However, the flight costs were shocking, I guess because the after Christmas travellers were still moving about. Hmm where to go? Checking online I saw super cheap flights to Thailand, great memories there, good temps and cheap ish and after the solitude of Lam Dong I was hungry for human interaction and it didn't need to be meaningful!. Onward travel to UK was good value too.
Feeling a little rebellious I went against all the guidebook advice and headed straight into Patong, party capital - you only live once!
I stayed in a hostel just out of the way of the centre but walkable, on the fifth floor in a shared dorm for a kingly sum of £6 a night.
Heading out down the Main Street was an assault of sounds smells and colours, wow! I drank in the craziness and headed for the beach, head full of great memories of the last time I was in Thailand back in 2017 with my best friend Kim.
I was advised by another friend Caroline (who lives in the area) to head north up the beach to get away from the tourists a bit, I duly complied and was rewarded with a nice little cove to sit and read and swim. A couple of hours later id managed to find and arrange a meet-up with another solo lady traveller who was based in Krabi. Ok mission on, Krabi was a bus ride away and somewhere id never been so why not! Accepting a challenge is always fun. The next day I found myself on the old blue bus heading out of town up a huge hill, my legs stuck to the bench seat in the sticky hot weather and I was glad of my sarong to sit on. I love open bus journeys, you see so much and often strike up random conversations with other travellers and locals.
Arriving in Krabi I met up with Cass, she's half Singaporean and half Aussie - a beautiful confident lady with a fabulous personality, we hit it off straight away (plus her hostel had a swimming pool!) and ended up travelling together for the next ten days and we had a ball, we travelled to Kao Sok and stayed in the floating bungalows, went caving and saw spiders, bats, frogs and catfish, not to mention the beautiful rock formations, deep water and darkness that was all a part of it. We smoked weed and watched the sun go down on beautiful beaches, at amazing food and walked miles. We swam in lakes, went on boats and bartered, bantered and generally spent every day winging it!
I even changed my flight so I could stay another week in Thailand. I was sad to see Cass go but I think well stay in touch.
Next stop UK brrrrr
However, the flight costs were shocking, I guess because the after Christmas travellers were still moving about. Hmm where to go? Checking online I saw super cheap flights to Thailand, great memories there, good temps and cheap ish and after the solitude of Lam Dong I was hungry for human interaction and it didn't need to be meaningful!. Onward travel to UK was good value too.
Feeling a little rebellious I went against all the guidebook advice and headed straight into Patong, party capital - you only live once!
I stayed in a hostel just out of the way of the centre but walkable, on the fifth floor in a shared dorm for a kingly sum of £6 a night.
Heading out down the Main Street was an assault of sounds smells and colours, wow! I drank in the craziness and headed for the beach, head full of great memories of the last time I was in Thailand back in 2017 with my best friend Kim.
I was advised by another friend Caroline (who lives in the area) to head north up the beach to get away from the tourists a bit, I duly complied and was rewarded with a nice little cove to sit and read and swim. A couple of hours later id managed to find and arrange a meet-up with another solo lady traveller who was based in Krabi. Ok mission on, Krabi was a bus ride away and somewhere id never been so why not! Accepting a challenge is always fun. The next day I found myself on the old blue bus heading out of town up a huge hill, my legs stuck to the bench seat in the sticky hot weather and I was glad of my sarong to sit on. I love open bus journeys, you see so much and often strike up random conversations with other travellers and locals.
Arriving in Krabi I met up with Cass, she's half Singaporean and half Aussie - a beautiful confident lady with a fabulous personality, we hit it off straight away (plus her hostel had a swimming pool!) and ended up travelling together for the next ten days and we had a ball, we travelled to Kao Sok and stayed in the floating bungalows, went caving and saw spiders, bats, frogs and catfish, not to mention the beautiful rock formations, deep water and darkness that was all a part of it. We smoked weed and watched the sun go down on beautiful beaches, at amazing food and walked miles. We swam in lakes, went on boats and bartered, bantered and generally spent every day winging it!
I even changed my flight so I could stay another week in Thailand. I was sad to see Cass go but I think well stay in touch.
Next stop UK brrrrr
Lam Dong
I’ve stayed in non touristy places in different countries before. This however is a fairly new kind of experience. Firstly I’ve got sole responsibility of a dog, that’s a first. Lucky as I am Toby the bichon frisée is as calm as you like, never begs, sleeps all night and is generally more easy going than most humans.
Secondly - I am super remote, literally haven’t seen any other westerners apart from the owners since I arrived.
Aiden took me to the bigger town before they left Ed for their holidays. Da Lat is about 11km away - there is a supermarket there and a large night market so I picked up a few things.
Now a week later Im getting low on food so ventured out into the nearest village. There’s no ‘supermarket’ as such, just a series of small wooden or corrugated buildings selling locally grown produce, baby milk, crisps and snacks and pop. Very few other groceries. So usually it’s all veggies which I enjoy, some I’ve never seen before but usually carrots broccoli cabbage lots of leaves, I can’t find mushrooms or lemons and apples are super expensive. You can however get a big bagful of seasonal stuff for about £2!
If I want more choice I have to venture into Da Lat but I’m not overly bothered. It’s nice living so simply - and quite a rest too.
The house I’m staying in is huge, five bedrooms, tiled everywhere, very big doors and tall cowlings, but again simple not palatial. No curtains, not hot water apart from one small electric shower in a bathroom in the kitchen (?)
In the kitchen there’s no oven but there is a two burner gas job (large gas bottle underneath) a sink with a cold tap and a kettle, microwave and fridge freezer.
I’m living quite comfortably with such basic amenities and it makes me realise just show much extra ‘stuff’ we have in the west.
One thing I would swap is the matress it’s as hard as rock! I’ve come across this before in Asia, i wonder what they would think of our mattresses! My body is slowly getting used to it.
Lam Dong
As i arrive at each destination i start thinking about the next. Not in an unhealthy way you inderstand, more a tiny bit of planning, the process goes as follows:
Decide if i want to stay in the areaa/country - in this instance i felt id done Aussie justice in the time spent here.
Look at map - find places i havent been in the same hempisphere
Log onto Workaway and see whats interesting
Log onto Trusted Petsitters and again see what looks good
Then - and this is the biggie, check Google Flights and see wheres cheap, realtively warm and very interesting.
Vietnam was coming up trumps so i zoned in on Petsitters and Workaway. In my experience you need to send arounf 8-10 requests to get one or two positive responses in return, and then they need to be suitable and in the correct dates etc etc. I spend quite some time doing this admin before i confirm anything.
I make contact with Aiden and Susana in Lam Dong Privince, Da Lat, Vietnam - yup ive no idea where that is either. I see pictures of Toby the dog, seems small and inoffensive, and we start chatting on Whatsapp (Aiden not Toby). Aiden seems fun and sends me heaps of info. I do a little research and discover a good flight proce and that Lam Dong is pretty far out in the sticks. I decide it might be nice to hide in the hills for 3.5 weeks, thereby escaping the festivities bah humbug etc.
I tentatively confirm anf book the flights. The cheapest way is Melbourne - Balis Denpasar-Ho Chi Minh City - Da Lat god bless my carbon footprint (more on that later)
I continue my work in Melbourne and leave at 5am one morning by the ever trusty Uber to Melbourne to get my 7.45am flight to Bali. Farewell Australia, what a journey it was, i think i know you pretty well now. I sit on the plane and realise ive left my airpods at the money exchange desk inside the aiport, dammit, i press the call button and explain to the stewardess, she disappears and i begin to think ill not see them again ( i LOVE my airpods, podcasts and tedtalks keep me sane on flights!) Ten minutes later im told i can leave the plane and go and find them if im fast. Christ, here goes, i run off the plane and back into the terminal, as i do so im aware i may look quite dodgy charging through the middle of the airport like a mad woman but im on a mission. arriving at the money change desk its a different assistant serving, my heart sinks. I explain my predicament and before i reach the end of the sentence the lady passes me my airpods, i smile and dash back to see the whole plane is seated and ready to leave, gosh ive become THAT passenger havent i , the one holding everyone up. Meekly i return to my seat and keep my head down for the entire flight.
I made it to Bali avoiding crying babies, and intact of mind and arrived in the familiar fragrant Denpasar airport. Having been here before it brought back some good memories, stopping to ponder briefly i realised i had to collect my bag, go through customs and immigration and then re-enter the airport to take the flight to HCMC, this porcess took an age, especially when you are trying to explain to immigration you dont actually want to stay in Bali! they eyed me with suspicion - but eventually let me go, i dashed thorugh customs and outside then abck in to departures.
Its about 38 degrees and im running late, i check in, dump my backpack and then proceed through security. I grab a takeaway vegan bowl and arrive just in time to board my flight, wow who booked this schedule...oh yes it was me!
The flight to HCMC goes smoothly and at theis stage ive no idea what the coerrect time is and choose not to worry. Arriving in Ho Chi Minh iks an epxerience of its own, huge crowds of people all travelling with so much luggage, boxes wrapped in string, strange looking packages containing who knows what. I know ive got three hours intil my flight to Da Lat, but o cant relax, its time to source my visa. I managed to get a pre visa letter on line before i travelled, this means ive been 'checked' so in essence it should be a breeze, experience tells me not to count my chickens.
I arrive at the Visa area, its heaving and there appear to be three people serving behind glass panes. In mant countries people dont queue politely as we do in the UK, its kind of slightly less polite carnage. I join a messy queue and wait. After about 2 mins i reach the front and approach an official, i show him my letter and he sends me to a corner on the left and says photo. No idea what ive to do so i ask those around me, it appears i need a passport sized photo,aha! Ive an old one in my purse, knew id need that one day, i flourish it and Britishly rejoin the back of the ever growing queue. I reach the front again and triumphantly flourish my photo, he takes it and attaches it to my form, then asks for the Visa pre approval letter, i show him on my phone, he then points me to a computer and tells me to log in to my gmail and print it, huff! I do as requested (it took me several attmepts, i mean who knows their gmail password?) Now im getitng nervous, its 7.10pm and my flight it at 7.45, ive still not collected my luggage, checked in or been through immigration. I grow a pair and go straight to the front of the queue, strnagely no one bats an eyelid, i can imagine it being quite an issue at home.
Back to Mr Official who takes my paperwork, nods and asks me to take a seat on the other side of the room. Ive no idea why, or what happens next, im resigned to missing my flight and spendng the night on the airport floor. I dutifully obey and watch proceedings, ahhh everyone on my side of the room is slowly being called up, they have to pay some money and then they get their passport and visa. I listen intently and after about 15 mins i hear my name, 30 dollars later ive got my visa and once again, im running through the airport. Bag collected and immigration passed i head to the check in, they are shouting through the queues for Da Lat passengers and rush me through check in, i run again to the gate and upon arriving see the flight is delayed for 40 min and breathe....
Taking my seat on the plane i notice its tiny, my knees are jammed up againts the seat in front - thank heavens its a short flight, 50 mins. We take off and then ten minutes in we start our descent, it was actually a 20 min flight, not sure what happened there! ive never been on such a short flight and would have taken a train if id known.
Arriving in Da Lat Luc the taxi driver was waiting, it was nice to see a friendly face. His English wasnt great but we made small talk for the hour jounrey to Lam Dong.
Arriving at 1030pm i said hello to Aiden who was struggling to stay awake, met Toby who seemed delightful and hit the hay.
Workaway number four
I land in Melbourne and get a cab to my next workaway. Household jobs and maintenance in Coburg, Melbourne.
I arrive at the house at a little after midnight and find the front door is open but i am unable to find any people.
I wander around the kitchen and pop the kettle on, all the time hoping im in the right place and aren't about to get arrested/shot or attacked haha!
A few minutes later a car pulls up and out jumps Ben, an affable guy but i just want a cup of tea and sleep!
Im offered a caravan or a bedroom and i quickly accept the bedroom and retire with my tea.
First time in a bunk bed for years! i sleep soundly and wake around six. Kettle on again and a small woman shuffles past me with a faraway look in her eye as she descends on the medicine cabinet.
I say hi and get a mumble in return, ah well - must be another workawayer who has had a heavy night!
Ben is at work so i send him a Whatsapp and we make a plan for the day, my first job is to clean one of the caravans on the driveway as two new workawayers are arriving imminently. I find all the cleaning gear and get on it straight away. Just as i finish i find the two new guests have arrived, Fiorello and Lautano, from Uruguay and Argentina, in their 30s, and super lovely.i welcome them and show them around the little i know of the house and we drink tea. I see we are pretty much left alone so we find work that we think needs doing and get on with it.
Later that evening Janine arrives, shes Bens wife and ohhhh i recognise her, the shuffling figure from earlier that morning! wow, what a transformation! Shes like a whirlwind and we instantly get on well.
As we walk through the house spotting things to be done i write them down, and it soon transpires there's a huge amount of work to do and Janine wants me to supervise. Its then i learn there's another young volunteer called Eastern from Canada in the next room to me! He spends alot of time in there so i make a mental note to wheedle him out.
Janine changes the subject, to her marriage...i remain professional and listen. Her and Ben are experimenting with an open marriage and both seeing people. Why i need to know this i have no idea. I nod and learn they've been together 25 years and need something more. Erm ok.
They both go to work (phew) and i return to finding the tools we need to start some of the jobs.
I introduce everyone and we work for a few hours. Eastern is a curious character tall and skinny with a cocksure attitude - at 18 hes older than his years conversationally so we have some interesting conversations but in other ways, he tires easily and often is judgemental of others.
Lauto is a fun guy, his English is getting there and i soon fall into the role of teacher, which we both enjoy. Fiorello is pretty and smart and keeps Lau focused - they are a great couple and i enjoy their company immensely.
As im only here a week i work on redoing a day room for Janeene and Ben, so most of my time is taken sorting it out and prepping and painting. I work two long days and take a day off.
I decide to walk into Melbourne on the day off and its 10k, no chance of getting lost as you can almost always see the skyline.
When i arrive i feel suffocated almost immediately, blimey, ive been in the bush too long i think!
Towards the end of my stay i wake one morning and, to my surprise - or not, Janeene appears form her room (wrapped in atowel!) with someone that isnt Ben. she introduces me to Pete and we say hi. Ben then appears form another room. This house is like a pandoras box!
I arrive at the house at a little after midnight and find the front door is open but i am unable to find any people.
I wander around the kitchen and pop the kettle on, all the time hoping im in the right place and aren't about to get arrested/shot or attacked haha!
A few minutes later a car pulls up and out jumps Ben, an affable guy but i just want a cup of tea and sleep!
Im offered a caravan or a bedroom and i quickly accept the bedroom and retire with my tea.
First time in a bunk bed for years! i sleep soundly and wake around six. Kettle on again and a small woman shuffles past me with a faraway look in her eye as she descends on the medicine cabinet.
I say hi and get a mumble in return, ah well - must be another workawayer who has had a heavy night!
Ben is at work so i send him a Whatsapp and we make a plan for the day, my first job is to clean one of the caravans on the driveway as two new workawayers are arriving imminently. I find all the cleaning gear and get on it straight away. Just as i finish i find the two new guests have arrived, Fiorello and Lautano, from Uruguay and Argentina, in their 30s, and super lovely.i welcome them and show them around the little i know of the house and we drink tea. I see we are pretty much left alone so we find work that we think needs doing and get on with it.
Later that evening Janine arrives, shes Bens wife and ohhhh i recognise her, the shuffling figure from earlier that morning! wow, what a transformation! Shes like a whirlwind and we instantly get on well.
As we walk through the house spotting things to be done i write them down, and it soon transpires there's a huge amount of work to do and Janine wants me to supervise. Its then i learn there's another young volunteer called Eastern from Canada in the next room to me! He spends alot of time in there so i make a mental note to wheedle him out.
Janine changes the subject, to her marriage...i remain professional and listen. Her and Ben are experimenting with an open marriage and both seeing people. Why i need to know this i have no idea. I nod and learn they've been together 25 years and need something more. Erm ok.
They both go to work (phew) and i return to finding the tools we need to start some of the jobs.
I introduce everyone and we work for a few hours. Eastern is a curious character tall and skinny with a cocksure attitude - at 18 hes older than his years conversationally so we have some interesting conversations but in other ways, he tires easily and often is judgemental of others.
Lauto is a fun guy, his English is getting there and i soon fall into the role of teacher, which we both enjoy. Fiorello is pretty and smart and keeps Lau focused - they are a great couple and i enjoy their company immensely.
As im only here a week i work on redoing a day room for Janeene and Ben, so most of my time is taken sorting it out and prepping and painting. I work two long days and take a day off.
I decide to walk into Melbourne on the day off and its 10k, no chance of getting lost as you can almost always see the skyline.
When i arrive i feel suffocated almost immediately, blimey, ive been in the bush too long i think!
Towards the end of my stay i wake one morning and, to my surprise - or not, Janeene appears form her room (wrapped in atowel!) with someone that isnt Ben. she introduces me to Pete and we say hi. Ben then appears form another room. This house is like a pandoras box!
Fond farewells
Our last few days we speed around South Island NZ in a mad dash to see as much as we can and hope that our 30-year-old car holds out before we get it home.
Hampered by bad weather we make the most of the days and are welcomed by some lovely people in the evenings, Nic in the bohemian hostel in Picton, Bruce and Joy in their family home in Te Anau (with way too much whiskey for the boys) and a couple of interesting motels we stayed in. Milford Sound was spectacular, ive never seen so much water pouring from the tops of mountains and the roads are so incredibly loopy it takes you an age to get anywhere, much to our delight.
Soon we reach Picton and prepare to take the ferry back, our last night surrounded by the friend we made there, and a new one or two which was really lovely.
We say our goodbyes and take the ferry to Wellington and then drive to our Air BNB not far from there. It was a funny little self-contained lower floor - a little over doe and over-managed but most welcome - bonus washier and dryer which i took full advantage of!
The next day we made the six-hour drive to Hamilton to return the red devil sports car! We took the wonderful donors out for dinner and shared stories and laughs.
That night we slept well and were up early to take the coach to Auckland. Lloyds flight was at three and mine 9pm which meant a super long wait. We talked and said our farewells, i even had a little cry. Wed spent soo much time together i was unsure what life would be like without him.
I wandered the airport until my flight to Melbourne and mulled over my next moves.
Hampered by bad weather we make the most of the days and are welcomed by some lovely people in the evenings, Nic in the bohemian hostel in Picton, Bruce and Joy in their family home in Te Anau (with way too much whiskey for the boys) and a couple of interesting motels we stayed in. Milford Sound was spectacular, ive never seen so much water pouring from the tops of mountains and the roads are so incredibly loopy it takes you an age to get anywhere, much to our delight.
Soon we reach Picton and prepare to take the ferry back, our last night surrounded by the friend we made there, and a new one or two which was really lovely.
We say our goodbyes and take the ferry to Wellington and then drive to our Air BNB not far from there. It was a funny little self-contained lower floor - a little over doe and over-managed but most welcome - bonus washier and dryer which i took full advantage of!
The next day we made the six-hour drive to Hamilton to return the red devil sports car! We took the wonderful donors out for dinner and shared stories and laughs.
That night we slept well and were up early to take the coach to Auckland. Lloyds flight was at three and mine 9pm which meant a super long wait. We talked and said our farewells, i even had a little cry. Wed spent soo much time together i was unsure what life would be like without him.
I wandered the airport until my flight to Melbourne and mulled over my next moves.
Countryside lockdown
I spent a night in a hotel in Coventry, Kims Ian was not a well man and some of his symptoms and what ive read on the news made me a little nervous. Kim and I went for a long walk and then I headed towards Huntingdon where Marc and Laura had offered to put me up.
Here I am tw whole weeks later, firmly ensconced in the daily life here. And do you know, its quite nice!
When I arrived we were reporting daily on a few small numbers of Covid19 victims in the UK, fast forward and this has grown somewhat. Heres a few facts to give you an idea of the impact of this thing. As of today:
Ait transport has almost all but ceased in UK, easyJet have sent all their staff home for two months.
Our PM and a few of his sidekick have succumbed.
Social distancing is the new phrase of the day.
We are only allowed outside to shop for essentials, medical aid and once daily exercise.
Businesses are folding and diversifying all over the country/world
Panic buying and low staff numbers mean shops have very little stock of goods, whole sections are taped off for non essential goods.
its a surreal world and each day when I wake I wonder if it was some kind of strange dream, but no, its the new reality for some time yet.
Anyway back to here. Marc and Laura live in a nice house out in the sticks in a village called Upton. Its on the edge of some fields. They share their home with Moose (bulldog/rottweiller cross) three cats, Barney, Crystabelle and Teddy, two rabbits, a bearded dragon and three geckos. Im going to like it here.
Here I am tw whole weeks later, firmly ensconced in the daily life here. And do you know, its quite nice!
When I arrived we were reporting daily on a few small numbers of Covid19 victims in the UK, fast forward and this has grown somewhat. Heres a few facts to give you an idea of the impact of this thing. As of today:
Ait transport has almost all but ceased in UK, easyJet have sent all their staff home for two months.
Our PM and a few of his sidekick have succumbed.
Social distancing is the new phrase of the day.
We are only allowed outside to shop for essentials, medical aid and once daily exercise.
Businesses are folding and diversifying all over the country/world
Panic buying and low staff numbers mean shops have very little stock of goods, whole sections are taped off for non essential goods.
its a surreal world and each day when I wake I wonder if it was some kind of strange dream, but no, its the new reality for some time yet.
Anyway back to here. Marc and Laura live in a nice house out in the sticks in a village called Upton. Its on the edge of some fields. They share their home with Moose (bulldog/rottweiller cross) three cats, Barney, Crystabelle and Teddy, two rabbits, a bearded dragon and three geckos. Im going to like it here.
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